Only if you let him in the door.
If you have a position, and you like your job, stay awhile and see what comes of it.
You don't have to have him in your life.
You are three hours away and can build a great life on your own.
I, personally, would never be able to trust someone who convinced me to uproot my
entire life on a series of lies, so I think I would end the relationship no matter what
you choose to do about going home or staying.
Hopeful is right--spot-changing is pretty hard.
Sorry you came all this way on false hopes, but you sound resourceful and smart.
That can take you pretty far without him in the picture here or there
