Thank you Dandylion! how kind of you to do that.
I will copy these and start making calls.
He would be super offended if he knew I was doing this.. but he has something going on, or he would have had at least one place on his own, in his adult life.
It hurts to even think it, but if it makes his life better someday, it will be worth any trouble.
many thanks again, and hugs,
chicory