Originally Posted by
happybeingme Yet I still feel somehow some of this is my fault
Knowing what I know now about generational dysfunction and how it gets passed on, I 'know' its not my fault. But I catch your drift, knowing doesn't always help. What has caused me the most difficulty is trying to stop fixing 'it' & her. Maybe that fixing is just a another form of believing its my fault??
Today, I'm a bit better and I don't mean a recovery talk 'today' I mean in the true sense a short time frame i.e. very recently I've have managed to stop trying to fix :-)
Mako