No, Refiner - I think he'll be much more likely to use the shoes/shorts return as something that pains him since they were a birthday gift.
I'm so sorry Chicory.....I can see how stuck you must feel in this.
Beyond literally forcing him to go to a office to get benefits, apply for disability and food stamps and insurance.....am not sure how he's going to do it on his own after this much time.
(((((you deserve peace))))))))