Wow, Lizatola... that's good news. You've been working your program and have become stronger and stronger and independent of him. I could see how you have mixed emotions now. First of all, your Give-a-Damn about his issues is probably way busted. You may have envisioned your moving on (at least emotionally). Now he's thrown a wrench into that with his own stuff (but at least he recognizes he needs to work his own program and it's on him, I hope). And with an A, you'll forever be looking over your shoulder in one way or another for the shoe to drop, most likely. You've been scarred. I'm glad you're working your own program and glad he's chosen to work one!