Now we'll call him RAH
So, my AH sat me down to talk to me about what he's been doing. He admitted to me that he is an alcoholic. His words were, "You were right, you were right, and I refused to see that I had a problem." He said he has found a sponsor and he thanked me for being 'stubborn'. He used that word quite a bit, while I don't think it's accurate, I let it go so that I didn't start an argument.
He told me that I should have kicked him out 2 years ago but that he's grateful to me for not doing so. He insinuated that if I had left, it would have been the end. He didn't specify what 'the end' was, so I can't assume to know.
I listened, I told him to enjoy working his program because I've learned a lot working my own program. He said that he knows that our marriage may still not make it because there's a lot of water under the bridge and that he understands if it doesn't. For now, he is going to focus on his own recovery.
So, with all that said, I will be staying in TODAY.