Ah has be escalating since last year. Several episodes of near violence. But he is very careful and never crossed the line. My back story is I can't work due to multiple health issues. He keeps tightening control over the money. Letting me have less and less even as he makes more. He has moved any available cash out of my reach. I have been trying to leave for six months. He lives a very glamorous life. Travels all over, stays in nice hotels. East at very nice restaurants all for work. He comes home on weekends and forces the kids and me to live pretty meager lives. He has a brand new car, very nice through work. I have a 14 year old vehicle that is in very bad shape. I'm not feeling well and having a pity party today. He will be home in two hours and I will be trapped in my room the rest of the day.Ugh.