Originally Posted by
killerinstinct 
LIZATOLA,
After much soul searching I realized where that awful feeling really came from.... I did not trust him and that was the bottom line, if I did, him not answering the phone wouldn't be an issue... Whether you don't trust, think he's unreliable, hate the deception I am unsure but for me my peace came when I realized it was all about a lack of trust.. and that's when I realized I probably wouldn't ever be able to stop that awful feeling because he was always lying to me.. sadly it drove me insane and our relationship ended as a result.
I agree that is the basic problem here. He knows this, I know this. I have a feeling that it will end our relationship, as well. Actually, it's pretty much over anyway, it's just a matter of logistics and me getting things squared away with some financial stuff (paying off some credit cards, etc). I don't trust him, period. And, I'm not sure I ever will and that's no way to have a marriage.