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Old 06-03-2014, 11:20 AM
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lizatola
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Anxiety when they binge

I hate it when fear takes over. My AH is traveling for work and that usually means a binge. He sounded OK last night when I talked to him but I've found that that doesn't usually mean he's sober.

Anyway, I needed to ask him a question this AM about his schedule for Thursday as I need his assistance but I can't get him on the phone. He shared his appointment list with me and I know he doesn't have anything scheduled this AM. He's not answering and then I realize that the fear sets in.

So, my question is: how do YOU handle your fears when you don't know where the alcoholic is, when you don't know anything really, but you know that they've been drinking? Honestly, I know the answer really: turn it over to God, to my Higher Power, and let it go. But, it's so much easier said than done!
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