Originally Posted by
NikNox 
I was just thinking that if she knew she could perhaps reiterate to SD that if she did start drinking again it wouldn't be her fault. I guess I wondered if it might make her feel sorry for SD too, for having such a tough time from her grandparents. But, it's probably a bad idea. I think that because what was said to her is so so awful we're still reeling from it
Hi Nik,
I don't think that the mother of your stepdaughter is in anyway going to be able to support her daughter right now. IMHO, if you tell her what your in-laws said to her daughter, she would probably feel it was a victory of sorts for her. This is just my 2 cents.
I think distance and silence and carrying on with your own lives in the most peaceful and joyous way possible is for the best in the long run.
Sending hugs!
S