You talk to your ex, who has remarried, on a daily basis? And you still love her? I'm sorry, but that is wrong on several levels. I can't believe her current spouse would tolerate such behavior. As hard as it may sound, you need to move on. While she may still provide you with support, the fact that you still love her is pulling you down. You are hoping that she will come back and it doesn't sound like she shares that feeling. Been there. It's a beeaatch.
To me, keeping in touch with your ex is the equivalent to keeping a bottle of booze locked in a cage on the counter after you have quit drinking.