Thank you nwgrits, I'm at a loss how any family can say this sort of thing to be honest, let alone to a teenager that they know has issues with her AM & self harms because of it!! Her grandmother sent her a text of apology earlier & promised, for the third time since Christmas, that she wouldn't have anything to do with her mum. Hmm, hasn't made any difference because SD knows that promise will be broken. They suck, they really do & now they've lost their granddaughter in favour of her non-related to them AM. Total crap ...