I can only speak from personal experience and wouldn't dreaming of advising you on what to do here. When I was deep into recovery-oriented therapy I met a very nice, normal guy. We shared many interests. He was funny and respectful. We went on a date and talked on the phone. He bored me to tears.
There's nothing wrong with that guy, but I just wasn't ready. Bad timing. I was still in the middle of learning to love and accept myself and so wasn't ready for someone who appeared to like me just as I was.
Later, when I met my now-husband, I was ready. There's no drama with us, but I am never bored. It had nothing to do with that first guy. It was all me.