Stick around long enough..... Or maybe get some more experience with meetings and you'll have no choice to admit mannnny meetings can be not only hurtful but devistating. It's a shame, but it's the way it is.
My aponsee's sobriety is THEIR game to play. They want my advice based on first hand experience.... I'll not recommend 90 in 90. I'll just stick with recommending the aa program