Originally Posted by
Vale 
Stalking is one-on-one terrorism.
I had one of these many years ago. Professional requirement to
interact/brief, which, when delivered in a friendly manner----was
interpreted as something else.
After receiving several 'hang-ups' during an off duty period
('kinda strange), this person made allusions during next duty period
to the effect that she 'knew I was home'. I put 2+2 together,
collected a few well known & respected coworkers to witness---then
stated in NO UNCERTAIN TERMS that if she EVER tried to contact me
via ANY method phone/text/carrier pigeon---that I would BYPASS
professional standards and go directly for the jugular by reporting it to
our mutual employer....with the certain knowledge it would cost her her
livelihood.
It stopped.
If she so much as butt dials my home ever again-I WILL follow
through.
I currently have enough evidence to make life uncomfortable for my AXGF. In a 17 month span, I have evidence that she's escalating.
But I believe what ultimately drives my AXGF is she wants to be in my head. She wants me to use mental and emotional energy thinking about her. And why do I want to do that? Answer: I don't.
I've changed my number. She cannot get through the gate of my workplace. This leaves her coming to the house and causing a scene.
If she wants to do this...if this is the path she chooses...then there will be consequences for her.
ZoSo