Originally Posted by
amy55 
To me, I think it is an awakening of your own feelings of what you want to have with your partner.
Hah Amy, my AH has always said that to me that women only go to bars to get laid. Not true, I went to bars a lot in my 20's and never had sex with anyone (sometimes I wish I had lol). I just had fun with my friends and sure, the male attention was nice.
Liz, I have been reading your posts for a long time. I too have been in a marriage where my husband cannot give me what I need. I have lived with that for 7 years. And you know what, life is short. We don't have to resign ourselves to loveless marriages. I feel the same as you. I would never start another relationship without letting my husband go. I had a dream a few months ago that I was in love. I was reminded how that felt. I think it was my subconscious telling me that it's not too late.