Your right. Last semester my anxiety and depression ticketed. I feel tired. There are so many.things that keep coming up to personally work on, I don't even know where to start. This may just be my anxiety. This guy is important to me. My gut tells me that this is something I need to handle if i want any relationship to be successful. How did being an ACOA come into plau with your relationship? My counselor has.talked to me about anxiety medicine and I.am wondering if that will help..