Originally Posted by
CodeJob 
Liz,
Hugs. I struggle with reality and whose reality I am actually in. I am too easy going at times and that was a defense mechanism that has not been particularly helpful dealing with an A.
Yeah, easy going doesn't begin to explain how I was and still am, to some degree. A lot of my easy going-ness was because I was a people pleaser and I just went along to get along. I hated to rock the boat.