Violence in your house, whether it be against inanimate objects or not, worries me Chic.
Please take steps to make yourself safe and, if you haven't already, take a wander through the stickys and educate yourself on violent situations and how you might handle them.
It may be you'll never have to use the information - and I hope not - but it makes sense to me to cover all scenarios.
Be safe, ok?
D