ughh! (((wtbh))) Sorry for the things I posted that don't apply, please read between the lines to the things that do, especially the many hugs and prayers. I was thinking of a different situation and just remembered what exactly you're going through.
Have hope. Perhaps this will somehow help in accelerating the wheels of justice to keep XAH from the girls. He may very well continue to nosedive, and in this case, perhaps that'll actually bring help around quicker.