thank you , so much, ladies. It is good to be heard, and understood.
Stepmom will not give second chance. his dad isn't in the best of health, and honestly, does not need this stress.... who does?
I will be back later. and I am grateful to SR. I think God guided me here, because I was at a point back then, when I was so depressed and losing my mind.
I look forward to change. And pray that it is shown to me what to do. I am not totally against putting him out, if it is what will help him. Mental issues are what worry me. I am going to insist he get counsel, as he promised when he first moved in here.
hugs
chicory