Sometimes not very well. I have found bad things are just as much a part of life as the good. What real choice do i have but to accept them and deal with them sober. I cry, am angry, overwhelmed. I share my grief and reach out to others. I try to stay out of my head and realize one part of my life is bad but many parts are good. I allow myself happiness and try not to stay on the pity pot for to long.
There are a million people who have experienced profound loss and sadness sober. I am just the latest member to the club