25 Statements to Happiness
by Shanel Yang
Seven years ago I came across this list. I don't recall where it came from but I do know that I couldn't agree with even one of these statements. In fact, I found the very idea of anyone being able to agree with most of them absurd. I thought, You gotta be kidding me! Who really goes through life THAT friggin? happy?? For some reason, I kept the list.
Over the years, I made it a goal to change myself or my life to eventually be able to say all of these statements with complete sincerity and heartfelt gratitude. I am surprised and pleased to realize I have finally succeeded with most of them.
I still struggle with #19 sometimes. And, I?m not exactly sure if its such a bad thing to need to compete with others (#10) since competition is a great motivator. But, other than that, Ive pretty much achieved the rest thanks to my new career as a writer. Im lovin? it!
And, so, I present this list to you in the hopes that maybe it will inspire you, too, to do whatever it takes so that you can, in the not-too-distant future, likewise, enjoy all of these great things, too.
25 STATEMENTS TO HAPPINESS
1. Most of the time, I have a great time!
2. I am content with my professional career.
3. I listen to my inner feelings and let them guide me.
4. Every day, I laugh and smile a lot.
5. I rarely become annoyed or angry.
6. People in general like me and my company.
7. I don’t get easily afraid of anything.
8. I rarely feel stressed out.
9. I adapt easily to changing circumstances.
10. I don’t feel the need to compete with anybody.
11. My life is a great adventure and so much fun!
12. I don’t spend much time worrying.
13. The world is beautiful and full of opportunities.
14. I sleep very well at night and wake up refreshed.
15. I usually focus on the solutions and not the problems.
16. I feel relaxed most of the time.
17. I know my abilities and feel confident most of the time.
18. I feel mostly fine, even when I’m alone.
19. I have no regrets over past mistakes.
20. To me, arguments are a waste of time.
21. I’m always open to new ideas and concepts in my life.
22. I live the way I choose and I let others do that, too.