I RESPECT the A's who work and live the Program.
A lot. A WHOLE LOT.
The Rest? Not so much.
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btw, just so you know what that would sound like . . .
Instead of "My AH claims one of our big problems is that I don't respect him."
You would saying, "My beloved RAH claims one of our big problems is he has not fully earned my respect, but can see he is working on that, and I love him anyway, and I am busy on becoming a better wife to him."