lol, holy cow, lilamy...I never expected to read that here but my current relationship is just the same. I am not complaining.
It's lovely to never have raised voices with each other and it makes me feel so safe and secure.
I try to pick my battles but we've never been to battleground.
If there is something I need to bring up, I simply state it and then leave it alone for him to process.
He frames his in a pun or funny way and I take that on board.
I think we both are just very accepting of each other.
We don't do the go in our corners and dwell about things either.
This is our bubble of sanctuary and having been both of us verbally abused and more in the past, we wish to preserve
I see a therapist once a month and always take him in with me so it has become therapy for us both. We use that time to bring up issues, tho it is always gentle.
Nope, I would not trade this gentle, kind relationship in for anything.