My EXAH smoked spice among other things but it was the spice that broke the camels back. It led me to divorce him. He was never a violent person when he was on all of the pills etc but spice did something to his brain that made him crazy. I came home one day and approached him ( something you must never do to an addict when he is high) and he pushed me.. Done the end, I put up with a lot of **** but physical violence I was not going to tolerate. I filed for divorce a few days later and that was the best decision I ever made.
Like you, I got very involved with my addict very quickly. After two months of knowing him he was living with me and a few months after that we were married. I thought i could help him, I thought I could save him, instead I lost myself in his addiction and lived through five years of hell. Almost a year and a half after our divorce I'm still struggling with some issues stemming from that relationship. Go back and read my earlier posts and you will see what kind of life I lived with the addict in my home.
You are young and you have the world by the tail.. Please please dont make the same mistake I did. Chances are if he is smoking spice he is taking other drugs too.. Run honey, run as fast and as far away as you can