"That's probably a good thing to talk about at AA and with your counselor."
My husband hasn't actively worked at recovery since rehab. So it might be: "I'm not your keeper, your counselor or your sponsor. That'd probably be a good thing to discuss with someone who knows what you're going through." I'll quote this again since it's meant a lot to me this week: Birds fly, fish swim, alcoholics drink. To drink is natural. To not drink is not natural and takes a lot of work.
Let my husband work on his recovery and continue with my own.