I found myself doing the other end version of the same thing.
When I would be at the kids' school or something.
Are they a "sane mom" or "sane wife?"
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As far as . . .
Is it really possible to remain in the marriage and keep your sanity? and most importantly no one can answer how will my children be affected if I stay or if I go?
Who really knows? As far as the kids -- they are affected, either way, as near as I can tell.
btw, Welcome Home, here. I am a guy with a Awtf, but it all looks about the same from all sides, as far as I know.