am sending positive energy your way, codejob. some of the most amazing people I have ever met have been RA's and their spouses (who were also in recovery).
awesome, just totally awesome, inspiring people. they give off this energy, and feel like tuning forks when I am around them.....it's almost a spiritual experience to share such healthy, balanced, and positive harmony in their presence.
I happen to know personally the hell they have been through. experienced much of it with them. I am aware they have stumbles, arguments, disagreements, struggles, leftover issues......but the anchor they share is far more powerful.
it is wonderful.
oh, and something I've noticed about these humble folks, is that they really don't respond well to being praised about what they have achieved together.
someone once told me that it is a way to keep humble and to help keep the recovery intact....to not get too puffed up about it. keep it real, and all.
your post gave me good thoughts....thank you.