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Old 04-17-2014, 07:30 PM
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Originally Posted by cheekie View Post
As codies we tend to love others based on possibilities/potential. But not ourselves. It seems that while mired down in this bog, we see the shiz that we're in...scary. we look to the addict as full of potential and used to be's..if only xyz...remember when...that dashed dream of the future??? Why is it so hard to award those thoughts to ourselves? We are worth it, right?
It's hard to live there when we take care of so much if the present unpleasantness.
Hn.
thanks Ann...I think I needed to think this.
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So true, but like with all addictions, we have a choice to seek recovery. I wished it was easier, I wish there was a magic wand. But it takes hard work and commitment but we ARE worth it.
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