I wanted to send you my sympathy once again. Your ex creating a situation like this, even if nothing happened, a situation that is dicey, what a thoughtless jackass. I really hope the therapist is wrong or caught something early on. I think about your little girl and how scared and confusing this all must be for her. If he did something inappropriate, I hope he goes to jail. I have heard that inmates do bad things to men who do those types of things.