Yes, I know I used the word audacity because he said I was the best thing for him. The joy of his life. Then he bails on me. By the second date, according to his words. He told me & my family, "I found you/ I found her" he made me feel treasured & adored... And then he didn't. He told me he was used to scumbags of girls, not my type. See how he built it up then declined- that's why I'm ticked off & hurt. Yes- audacity is strong in connotation, but I'm so pissed at him. He pursued me. I just wanted to be friends & let it grow into more. I'm good though now, after reading more & more posts. I see it for the truth. It's crap & trouble- I remove myself from him.