We have a nanny cam in my grandma's nursing home room. It looks like a teddy bear but my mom can log in and check it all the time.
It is YOUR home, if you want to nanny cam and video for security in your own home I would think that would be legal, but I am no expert that's for sure.
So so very sorry for all you have went through and are going through. I am praying for you and your family.
Please know we are holding your hand and sending you HUGE hugs during this time.
XXX