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Old 04-15-2014, 07:29 AM
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stella27
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I have done that very thing, Liz.
I still do it to some degree. I think it's an emotional response to an out-of-control life.

If I have my "things" around me, I won't be so cold, empty, lonely.
If the world caves in, at last I can look good while it's happening.
I have the money now, who knows when I ever will again?
And of course the same old attempt to fill up that whole in my heart with material goods.

I also think there's an element of barricading ourselves against the inevitable pain and suffering with cozy stuff.

There's some pathology there for sure. I question my habits about buying and spending in this way all the time. It's one area that I know needs work on my side of the street.
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