I agree "working on me" is good advice. I have made an agreement with myself, to spend the next 2 years doing that.
It won't be about getting a good job ( whatever that is these days), making more money, meeting a new man, being concerned about my appearance.
It will be about healing on the inside. My mental health has suffered greatly, my soul destroyed. This is what I'll be committing to healing. Meetings, support groups, SR, nutritious eating and keeping up with my meds.
Trauma and abuse have been with me since the age of 12. The addict was the final straw.
I hope I can do this, I want to do this.
THANK YOU!