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Old 04-13-2014, 08:32 PM
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amandasue
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: boyne city, michigan
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finally left

After 26 years of marriage, 4 dui's, and three kids i left. I have skulked around this website for years reading, studying and learning. I tried to wait till all of my kids were fully grown but only got 2 grown. One left who is 17. My ah is a hard worker, is generous and a good father. I stayed because there is so much good in him that it seemed to out weigh the negatives of his drinking. But as we have aged , the alcoholism has progressed and my tolerence for it has faded.

So then, aftwr i left he has gone insane!! Crying , literally to everyone who will listen. Still hasnt stopped drinking but promises he will if i come back. He spends all day vomiting, crying, whining and browbeating me and the kids. A side of him has been exposed that i never knew about. Narcissism that i didnt even realize he had. A rage i never expected. Threatening suicide. Screaming obscenities . I am struggling to make ends meet and make sure this divorce happens!!
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