I am sorry for the reason that brought you here i wish I could tell you something that would be a magic cure but it simply does not work that way. My suggestions are to read the forum especially the stickies.
There will be some people later with more advice I saw the post and didn't want you thinking no one was responding. Late night and weekends can sometimes be slower.
Just wanted to add: You didn't Cause it, You can't Cure it, You can't Control it
All those fall on him.