Nothing wrong with complaining, and this is the place to do it! If we felt we couldn't speak out to grip because there was someone in the world that had it worse, then only one person on Earth would get to complain! And that's all he'd ever get done!
I'm really impressed by both you and shockozulu, Davey. You both endure a lot and manage to stay sober. That really shows me I don't have any excuse.