Yeah I don't know how I will make ends meet but w the shock worn off I'm actually somewhat glad for this...I will have more time w my kids and HATED my job anyway...
You know, I've been broke as hell over the course of my life (one year my son and I lived on, paid rent and ate on $11K!) and I nevertheless have figured things out.
School money for an accredited brick and mortar school is abundant, you can get a TA-ship, cheap housing, and it's "good" debt. Your girls will get to see you buck up and make a major life change and thrive regardless of what their dad is doing.
You will get by. Keep looking past this dude and on to what you want for yourself and your life. He'll get his.