Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
I feel like morning is best bc its when he's least likely to be drunk so I have been hesitant to change it... But I guess I better think about it and figure out a different time...
Just to add, you don't have to change the time; you have a time, he agreed to it. If he doesn't turn up, he is forfeiting the time and you have the right to make alternative arrangements on that morning. Just make sure you spell it out to him in a registered letter in advance.
Let him see the new you, the one who won't let him play around with you and manipulate you.