wanttobehealthy

I have a friend who brings one daughter when he doesn't show and the other daughter goes to school near my work so I bring her.

The alternate plan is no issue... It's my fear of being told I am in contempt if I drive them vs waiting around for him.

The order is total BS to give him free reign to dictate when he will come in the morning and it is like court sanctioned encouragement for him to abuse me by making me late to work.

I guess I will just tell HIM what time I plan to leave and then do so if he is not there...

I have been afraid of doing this daily bc I don't want to look like I am keeping him from his parenting time... But I might not be seeing it clearly bc I am fearful of him so maybe that is in fact a totally reasonable boundary to set...?