Originally Posted by Andy F
Would you who describe yourselves as codependant say you have 'something' different about you, like some alcoholics believe they have a 'disease' that makes them distinct from non-alcoholics or would you say you are simply describing human and often female behaviours and instincts that for whatever reason have gone astray or into extremes?
Having a child with "special needs" I am well aware of the vast majority of labels out there. Over the years I have come to this decision. My son has learning disabilities. I don't care what label gets hung on him, as long as he's in the right program that will enhance his learning and where he will feel successful.
I use the same logic with myself.
If I had to use a book title, I'd call myself a "woman who loves too much" before I'd call myself a "codependent".
Doesn't matter what I call myself.
What matters is what I do about it.