That made rather uncomfortable reading. Recently i have been increasingly aware of these traits in myself and they seem to be getting worse with age. Preachy, angry, martyr and blaming are all words that particularily seem relevent right now. I am really not likening my increasing tendency to martyrism and notice that it stems from me being a real over-responsible caretaker then feeling let down by people when they dont do as i want. I was knowing this stuff but seeing it written down i found prickly.
Thank-you for posting as it is reminder that; ok now i know it, about time to deal with it.
