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Old 04-04-2014, 07:06 PM
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Originally Posted by LaTeeDa View Post
The thing about alcoholics is that they have a really strong gravitational pull. Everyone in their lives orbits around them like the planets orbit around the sun. Nobody gets to have their own separate and distinct life because they are pushed and pulled by every little thing the A does. It's suffocating, but safe to orbit around another person. It's very scary and difficult to pull away from that orbit and learn to shine like a star all on your own.

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Too funny! La tee DA, my T called me "vibrant" which has really thrown me for a loop. I do feel like a comet. I keep trying to break that orbit!! For one moment I saw myself they an objective viewpoint instead of my own hypocritical view and RAHs view.

Liz, thanks for your kind post. Some days it is such a relief to know I am not alone in my questioning thoughts! I read that book with a counselor I saw for a bit! I got so ticked off after one session I called my H and reamed him for making me crazy! lmao
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