Originally Posted by
MissFixit 
Manipulation. Why do you believe what HE says the therapist says about his lack of sex. I cannot imagine a therapist saying "I feel sorry for you for not having sex." I can see a therapist saying that it must be frustrating and what can you (HE) do to repair your relationship. He says I gave her flowers...but no mention of the horrible behavior. Therapists are pretty wise to that stuff.
Because he showed me HER notes from their session. All I know about her is that she is 4 years out of grad school and starting out on her own right now. I'm thinking he's going to eat her alive. But, that's his thing and not mine. I just don't want to know nor need to know what goes on in HIS therapy session. Apparently, she types up notes on the session and book recommendations and then gives them to her clients.
She also recommended that he read, "Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay." I read that book about 3 years ago, maybe I should dig out my copy for him? I don't think he realized that I saw the book recommendation at the bottom of the page, though, because he didn't refer to it in our discussion.