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Old 04-03-2014, 12:03 PM
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lillamy
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Fear made me step up my recovery work.
Because that kind of fear -- for me it was "will he kill himself if I leave" -- only means your focus is still on him and not on you.

Like Sparklekitty said -- it was only when I could accept that he would do whatever he was going to do whether or not I tried to control it that my fears subsided.
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