Wow... thank you for the reply Ms. Fixit and I am SO sorry you experienced all the awful stuff you did as a kid and even still with your dad...
Your dad sounds EXACTLY like my mother-- I am the oldest and bore the brunt of her abuse and my siblings all aligned with her to protect themselves and still do...
And xAH is SO much like my mother it's terrifying...
Yes, I would like to move... I need my divorce to be finalized or at least get permission to move out of state with the girs...