The first line sums it up...."you are sicker than a dog." I know when I'm that sick there is no rationalizing, only extreme emotions. Be kind to yourself, even when your boss is less than professional and patients are being less than patient. I love the saying I've heard in al anon when people all around are being jerkish, "that's their problem, it has nothing to do with me." 99% of the time that's correct.
Rest and get well! Sending good energy your way! Happy Birthday by the way!