That's interesting, I still have quite a bit to learn about "relapse" or simlar, -distinguishing between choices and illness...
And its ended because I no longer wanted it to be my responsibility, although I am glad he reduced his drinking with me after , talks and ultimatums (I hate that word) the onus seemed to be on me and I didn't want that responsibility.
Originally Posted by
lillamy 
If his parentsLanguage. Please. I have this on authority from addicts themselves -- nothing causes a relapse. Things may happen in a sober addict's life that they use as an excuse to take a relapse. When an addict says something or someone caused a relapse, they're running from responsibility.
His addiction is his responsibility. It's not yours. It never was yours. Even when you were dating.
Chin up, buttercup.