Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
I have maxed out my 3 credit cards on my lawyer. I literally don't have a cent left in credit...
What xAH has done very well is argue, drag out the divorce, fight every point and its dragged on and on and on and I have no more more to fight....
I think I read that this is a tactic of abusers and he sure fits the bill...
I haven't decided about the party... It has been a horrific day here for reasons unrelated to the bday...
Does your daughter expect you there? Does she need you there for emotional support? Is this your younger daughter or the older teen (who might not want mom there anyway)? Is the venue okay with having you put the deposit down and not attend the event?